Period of Post-Divorce

Here are sharing through personal observations about the Period of Post-Divorce, observed from personal experience and other people the same boat.  It could be subjective, but at least be the subject of contemplation.

0-1 years: a critical mass (including thinking suicide, so terrible)

1-2 years: basic recovery (at least want to eat and sleep)

2-3 years: slow recovery (cool, but surely there is a process of healing)

3-4 years: try to enjoy life (but fake, sorry)

4-6 yr: redefinition

7th: Able to Decide with wisdom (already graduated)

All stages were undertaken to walk like up the stairs on a hill, very tiring, and the way that we’ve said many times “Oh God, I’m so Tired of this” or “My heart is tired” or “Sick of Crying” or “God strengthened my heart. “We also found no others who are interested to understand the state of our inner being, including sometimes the parents and older sister more and sarcastic comments. Not all, some are lucky to undergo a difficult time with full moral support from people close.